in peace

time slips so effortlessly that i don't realize that the sun has set and it is time to sleep.we wake up,do our usual stuff,meet friends,spend time with our significant others...sometimes it does strike that the day has come to an end,and that it had to..and sometimes you don't realize that one day of your life has just turned into past. there are moments that would get printed in your book of memories and few things would just get erased before being printed.
i feel there is no end to a relationship one forms.we are social animals who are here to form,maintain and respect relationships.even if you try to put an end to a relationship physically..time will prove that it can re-fresh/re-install your memory even after all the battles.you will remain connected to that character even if you don't talk about it or even if you don't think about it...so a relationship formed never has an end.
one of my friend feels that one won't gossip or say negative things about a person if he/she is a true friend.i feel she is right in a way..when we are true to someone..we just accept a person as he/she is..but i even feel that there are bad times also..when one feels like just throwing up whatever he/she has in his/her mind.its not necessary that it has to be right or wrong..but it is a way of expressing your feelings..a temporary phase..that doesn't mean that you don't care for that person or don't admire that person. according to me every person has the right to speak what they feel..it would be inappropriate if one has made up stories to satisfy his/her own ego..for example if i have a fight with a friend..i gossip and tell some x person that he did something..but if i build a story on this something then there is some problem..and the problem lies in me.so there is nothing wrong in having gossip sessions till the time your aren't creating a fake story.
i believe in the concept of 'return gifts'.life gives you what you gift to your own life.when i wake up in the morning..i hug my mornings,and so i get a smile in return.it feels great to be woken up by the rays of the sun kissing you...and whispering in yours ears that wake up..its going to be a great day.at the end of the day its not everyday that i question myself that what did i do today?what happened?did i make use of the time that god has gifted me.the answer is yes..even if i haven't done anything materialistic..i know that i have spent my time with people i love..with sufficient conversation with my inner self.even in bankruptcy condition spending the last penny on a coffee is so satisfying that every sip makes me feel like the richest person on earth.
i shall i continue writing this post after dinner...
till then Tc
drive safe
ciao!