i used to strongly believe that each person on this earth wears a mask to deceive the others...moving around..pretending to have achieved success in doing so..but little does he know that he himself has been victimized by his own attempts..his own manipulations mislead him...
but today i don't feel..that its completely true..
may be there are n number of shades to a person's personality/character.may be one life is not enough to show or share all the shades..i used to feel that all the things in life are simple and shallow..what i see is the truth..what i feel is the truth.its we who make things complex..
but its we who bamboozle ourselves by thinking that our perception is the truth..
i kept on telling one of my friend that you are simple and not complex and that you are on a mission to make things around you as complex as u can...
but this is not true..human beings are complex..by complex i mean there are so many faces of a person..you cannot judge a person looking at one flash..or one snap..or one shade..
it isn't shallow..n its not crystal clear..and even if it is crystal clear..its definitely beyond reach of mankind to completely understand the other person in their life..
i am sure there are people who deliberately complicate things for themselves..and there are few who would blow out of proportion and be happy on being entangled...but there are few who don't wish to be part of the intricacy of life..people who feel that the twists and swirls are actually straight lines..and it sure is...when you actually get a section of it..you will find it straight and simple.it sure is the best way to lead life..
so there is nothing like complete truth.and for a psychologist its very important that we don't jump to conclusions..so i am going to try not to judge or built a character sketch of any person from now on..even if i know that person..
anyways all i wanted to share is that things are deeper than deep..thoughts are deeper than deep..and humans are surely deeper than deep!
time to sleep..which is indeed a very easy and simple activity for me..atleast for today..
take care..
drive safe..
enjoy...
ciao!
this one goes deep girl! i like it when you hit a introspective nail...
ReplyDelete...when it comes to matters of simplicity and complexity and knowing people. i say, forget it all! you shall be surprised at every step, and i mean all kinds of surprises, good and bad. heck, there shall be times when you shall surprise yourself. i always told you shrinks, "stay out of people's heads."
...sometimes, what you may find inside might be beyond crazy!
good post though. keep it up.
nachi u suck.
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