hook-unhook

all of us grow with different experiences, but one thing that we share in common is that we evolve through the same phases in life,from childhood to adulthood to elder-hood. and all through these phases one thing that stays constant is 'change'.
coming back to the topic hook-unhook..all of us in our adolescence have our own list of crush/es.despite our elders warning us that during teens its only infatuation..and not love..we would have banged on the ground and yet believe that it is love. there are 100% chances that its the girl who would think so..and might have built castles in air. people who would name it as infatuation are their enemies.they only realize on being dumped that its was not love..and that also a true one!i can say this because i have a seen a lot of girls who misinterpret infatuation as love..even i was one of them :P! again a boy would walk in their lives and sway them with their honey talks..this time the girl would think may be he is the one for me..and again on being dumped she realizes that it wasn't!i know it doesn't happen always.but if we calculate the number of girls being dumped..then it would cross a century!i have no ill feeling for boys for their actions or decisions because i personally feel that its the girl who analyzes the puddle and decides to jump into it.let me clarify that i don't believe that all the relationships result in failure or relationships are the worst thing that can happen to a girl..infact r'ships are the most beautiful things in life..if its the right one..and the right person.
talking about girls getting hooked and unhooked. its not a tough job to impress girls.everytime a girl would come across a new guy she would make a checklist of the qualities the boy possess which definitely would exclude the flaws of the X as 'the new one is better than the X one!' .and would decide to remain blind to things that she doesn't want to believe or accept.on having a break up..she would again wait for a new man to make an entry in her love-life.it makes me think...why are girls so dependent on boys to feel love..why do they ruin the nicest moments of life by getting on and off a relationships.here i am only talking about girls who are on a mission to find their Mr Right, and in order to do so..they just make themselves easily available.why?stop doing that to yourself.you don't have to look around for the Mr Right..he will come to you..at the right time. You don't have to try so hard or make yourself easily available that you loose your own identity. making yourself easily available passes a wrong idea to people around you.
somehow its a little disturbing when i see how a person changes in a pessimistic way due to failed relationships..so i just hope that no girl or boy makes herself/himself easily available to others that they loose their worth cause every individual is worth the best!